Posted by
beargod, 15:40, 4th March 2003:
This is an actual extract from a s3x education school textbook for
girls, which was printed in the UK in 1963......
"When retiring to the bedroom, prepare yourself for bed as promptly as possible. Whilst feminine hygiene is of the utmost importance, your
tired husband does not want to queue for the bathroom, as he would have to do for his train, but remember to look your best when going to bed. Try to achieve a look that is welcoming without being obvious.
If you need to apply face cream or hair rollers, wait until he is asleep before doing so, as it can be shocking for a man last thing at night. When it comes to the possibility of intimate relations with your husband, it is important to remember your marriage vows and in particular, your
commitment to obey him. If he feels that he needs to sleep immediately afterwards, then sobeit. In all things be led by your husband's wishes.
Do not pressure him in any way to stimulate intimacy. Should your husband suggest congress, then, agree humbly all the while being mindful that
a man's satisfaction is more important than a woman's. When he reaches his moment of fulfilment, a small moan from yourself is encouraging to
him and quite sufficient to indicate any enjoyment that you may have had.
Should your husband suggest any of the more unusual practices, be obedient and uncomplaining but register any reluctance by maintaining silence. It
is likely that your husband will fall promptly asleep after relations have concluded, so once he is fast asleep, adjust your clothing, freshen
up and apply your night-time face and hair care products. You may then setthe alarm so that you can arise shortly before him in the morning. This
will enable you to have his morning cup of tea ready when he awakes."
Posted by
beargod, 15:51, 4th March 2003:
do you think that it was written by a man?
Posted by
Grim..., 18:28, 4th March 2003:
Hang on - that's correct, surely?
Posted by
zxenor, 19:46, 4th March 2003:
eh... and this is topic 1966? eh?... nice irony there
Posted by
jeffld, 20:27, 4th March 2003:
I've seen something like that before and I wonder how often that actually happened.
I would never want to be treated that way. I felt guilty enough when my wife would fix my plate for me at dinner. I would always tell her that I appreciated it, but it was difficult for me to tell her not to do it because I didn't want to hurt her feelings. I made an effort to try and get it before she had a chance, and I did the dishes at least 3 times a week.
As for the bedroom.. that was a whole other matter. She was amazing. I won't get into the details.. ;)
Anyway, it is a moot point because my wife sabotaged our marriage and now lives with the man who lived next door to us. Needless to say I don't live anywhere near her and ironically the Divorce is next month. I lost my house and many of my possessions just to get a divorce agreement from her. - I thank god daily that we never had any children in the 6 months that we were married. Before we got married, we were living together for 11 months.
I miss her and I don't miss her.
I could probably write a book about the whole experience.
ok - getting off soap box.
Sorry to hear that jeffld, but you are much better without her. I myself got out of a ten year relationship last August.
Love can be heartbreaking, but if you are unhappy and they treat you like shite, then it is time to get away.
I also lost a lot of my possessions, but found that I am a lot happier now.
Posted by
chandler, 21:57, 4th March 2003:
i noticed that 1966 thing. weird
Posted by
chandler, 21:59, 4th March 2003:
Red: I was going to buy you a copy of that textbook for your birthday. Just so you knew how to behave for me
speak like that to me again Chandler my dear and I'll be chopping your gonads off and making you eat them :)
jeffld you dserve someone so much more loving and appreaciative
Posted by
chandler, 22:17, 4th March 2003:
I would be worried but I know she loves it really.
I'm going to have to tie you back up now